Get Your Marriage On Track With This Email
Hey there, passionate hearts!
Let's face it, life's hustle can dull the sparkle in our marriages. But, fear not! I've got a double-action plan to reignite that fire:
Here are two things you should start now to help your marriage NOW.
Date Nights: Mark Your Calendars for Love! Inject excitement with regular date nights. It's not just about going out, it's about carving out special moments for each other. So, whether it's a cozy dinner and a movie, or an evening at a bar, make it a calendar event!
This shows each other that you are prioritizing time for each other and are continuing to have fun in your marriage.
Scheduled Intimacy: Keeping the Flame Alive Now, let's talk bedroom talk. Scheduling intimacy might sound clinical, but it's actually a lifeline for your love life. It's about making sure you both don't just fall into bed exhausted. Plan it, anticipate it, and watch the sparks fly.
My husband and I first heard about this from “One Extraordinary Marriage” Podcast and we tried it and love it.
It can still be spontaneous, this is how we do it. 1 time from Mon to Wed I have to initiate sex with my husband. 1 time from Thurs to Sat, my husband has to initiate sex with me.
What this does, is it allows my husband (who is the higher desire spouse), to expect and know he will be getting some that week more than once. A lot of resentment and stress in marriage happens with one spouse isn’t sure when the “next time” is that they’re getting it and there are many arguments due to this.
This arrangement gets rid of that and also allows for each initiating, no one likes to be the one to always initiate.
Love Takes Planning Remember, a thriving marriage isn't just about spontaneous combustion; it's about stoking the fire with intention. Grab your planner and start scheduling your way back to a vibrant, passionate connection.
Stay fiery,
Marina 💘